Loving Doms and submissives

Loving Doms and submissives
Loving and Learning is What Makes D/s Special

Message from Solcat: Welcome to Loving Doms and submissives, a chat room that is for those who are serious about loving Dominance and submission. The room is based on friendship and learning. Honesty, trust, respect and caring are essential in D/s and in friendship. It is my belief that two must develop a close friendship before they can move on to a loving D/s relationship. Also, we cant stop learning, relationships of any kind are tough these days and demand hard work to achieve happiness within them.
Also, I dont believe in slavery in any way real shape or form. Other than a symbolic gesture of a sub to show her deep devotion and love by calling her One Master, slavery is demeaning of the human spirit. In todays society, all to many are willing to give up their basic human rights, a dangerous trend in deed for us all. Also, what makes up a Master, the fact that he can master a subs heart, mind, body and soul? Well if that is the case, why are so many socalled Masters looking for someone, obviously, they havent even mastered finding someone. Likewise, is a Master one who has had plenty of experience, then again, why is he on here looking for anyone who will submit to him. It really is too funny.

I believe D/s is a two way street. Both a Dominant and submissive are equal, each providing the essential ingredients to making the other the best both can be. This complimentary relationship, steeped in passion, in exploration and in sharing offers what so many modern relationships lack. In my mind, D/s offers everything that is missing in most modern marriages and consequently the lifestyle will become very mainstream, as it contains the solutions that so many are seeking. Think about it. D/s has all the traditional values of mutual respect, trust, honesty and love; plus no competition for power; and its uninhibited openness to explore erotic and release needs; how could there be a better type of relationship?
I am now very concerned about to where online chat is pushing this lifestyle, making abuse seem almost normal. So called online masters making subs feel inferior if they are not into pain. These men are power freaks, preying on naive women. Also, women who dare say they have no limits. They are obviously players who know nothing about this lifestyle. It is time to take a stand against those who are demeaning what is so important to many of U/us! Finally, I dont mind fantasy play, but please declare that is what you are wanting right from the start, then there are so fewer problems in the long run.
So welcome, and make yourself at home. I promise you, that you will meet some of the best people in the world. As for those trolls, players and predators, they are not welcome. So enjoy, and if you have any problems, just let me know.

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